One woman made an excellent argument for continuing breastfeeding into the toddler years: Basically she compared the health benefits of human milk (for a human) to cow's milk. I thought it was a good point. Wouldn't it make sense that our own milk is what was intended for our children and since milk is a necessity long after toddler years wouldn't it be better to provide them with the best?
I admit, I do feel a little uneasy when I see a mom nursing a six year old, but that is my issue. I cannot say that the mother is getting some sick pleasure out of it and I have to admit that being raised in a society where breast were seen a purely sexual and formula feeding was the norm, my societal upbringing has tainted my initial reaction.
What is truly sad for me is how quickly I see women turn against one another when we already have so many obstacles outside of the home. We are seen as the weaker sex, get paid less for doing the same job, overlooked on promotions, and experience harsh bias in family courts even when faced with domestic violence and so much more. I look to my sisters to find support in loving and supporting myself and my children.
How can we support mothers who do it a little different but love their children the same? Are we capable of making a universal network that supports each one of us without harsh judgment or criticism? I’d love to hear others thoughts on either of these issues (breastfeeding and/or support vs. judgment).
Lovingly,
Dena The Doula
www.abirthinggoddess.com
